The HR interview!

The HR interview is one of the most relaxing and enjoyable interview, not because it is easy but because the result is always unpredictable. Below is an excerpt of the interview.

HR: Why do you feel that our company is better than your current company?
Me: I do not feel or think your company is better than my present company.

HR: (a little surprised) oh! then why do you want to come here? From a better company to a lesser better company?
Me: Because of money. My present company pays less and it will take atleast 2-3 years to earn what I will earn if I make a switch now.

HR:(pretty amused by now) : So, you are financial minded? What if some other company offer you a better package than us? Will you still join us?
Me(thinking to myself-who does not): At the moment, I do not have any offers and if I happen to secure a better offer, I will discuss if you can offer me a better one.

HR:(completely uninterested) : OK! thanks Michael. We will let you know. Thanks a lot for coming.
Me: Thanks for your time as well. Have a nice day.

Well, the outcome is very predictable and people who are in IT industry will definitely know what the result will be. I was brutally honest and I do not had any HR interview experience(that being my first HR interview after my first company, my first company was a campus hire so it was straight forward).

I was expecting a positive response as my technical rounds were good. After a few mail reminder that runs through 2-3  weeks, I finally got an email saying I am not selected. Funny aint it?

Heaven's delight!:)

Heaven is a place where you have no problem, none at all. Good food, nice girls-dancing to your delight, a disease free body and what not... an endless pleasure for the rest of your life..err..afterlife. I simply can't agree with the fact of its existence, not just because I do not believe in afterlife but also I think its a crap(Ya seiously!). You get what you do in this life, not in your next life or in any life after that. Religion has its way of making people believe to such an extend that they are ready to give up everything in the name of it. I dream of a 'religion-less' world. I dream of a world with people not hating each other because of religion. I am from India and I have seen people killing each other in the name of religion, friends turning foes, neighbour hating each other - and they believe they are God's army or some shit like that.

Anyway, I am not here to change the world. I can't, yes, can't is an easy word. People may just say- you just give up without even trying. Yes, I give up and I am not taking the pain to try to convince people to follow no religion and become more 'HUMAN'. I find it difficult to change my job leave alone changing the whole world. But, I believe if I am destined to do something I will do it and if I am not I will never despite how hard I try. So, for time being lets just leave 'if I try to change the world or not' topic alone.

I was talking about heaven, heaven do exist, not in God's land. It is everywhere. There is heaven in a child's smile on streets who has very little yet happier than most of us, in the serene of your countryside, in holding hand of your loved ones, a baby's smile. Its everywhere, you need to feel it. The difficult part is how you feel it. If a person's mind is filled with greed, jealousy and hatred, he/she can never feel heaven let alone living in one. You need to let yourself go of all those negations to feel it. I am not a spiritual guru but I think its a simple thing yet not so easy. Thou who learns how to let go of all the negations has the heaven in his name- not afterlife but in this life, and afterlife he will rest in peace.

Being 'the' average.

Life is a funny. For me life was all about enjoying the journey and I keep telling myself I am happy no matter what. I keep reminding this shit all the time and one fine day I woke up and I realize I can't be happy all the time and I have feelings too. I like being sad sometimes. Its OK to be sad. I am already in my late 20's and soon will be in my 30s. My dad had two sons at my age. This is a good indication that I am not young anymore and I was almost half through my life. Yeah that's right, half through, with almost no bank balance or car or even a house for that matter. Life gets tougher every second, I can't be happy go lucky anymore, life has taken a turn, a sharp one that too. My parents are getting old and they are getting weak every day, a sudden chill runs through my body, almost making me froze and left me gasping for some air of hope. A hope that things will get better, but, not like before, this time I have run out of that too. I can't hope for anything anymore. I am too tired of hoping for things. I hate that word anyway. The burden of responsibility was something I am not good at. But, it was inevitable. Life is not easy- it wasn't anyway.

The only questions that keeps on hovering in my mind was 'what exactly went wrong?'. I was an average student, an average employee, an average looking guy. I am the average guy. I have not taken enough risk, I have not taken the step forward when I had the chance, I was too afraid to lose my average tag- fear of losing that thing, the average thing. I convinced myself that I am an average guy and going beyond was not my thing. I was too afraid to take 'that' leap of faith. After doing some soul searching I realize the problem lies with my obsession with being the 'average'. I used to dream big and I say to myself, whom am I kidding with. I have ideas and I dream BIG, sometimes. Ideas are never implemented and I bore myself to death with my dreams. There lies the problem.

Yes, I have been a cry baby, complaining about things, some may even say I had a good life and had everything(at least the basics)- partly true. But the truth is I had to fight at every step of life- emotionally and mentally- not physically so far though. Life has been hard for me and this has been a HUGE factor in making me an average. I choose to be an average because I was too afraid to lose the things I already had. Or maybe I am too lazy and lacks motivation. Saying that life is hard will be both politically and logically wrong. I had three meals a day, proper education and a good platform for my career. Yes, I am completely wrong to say or even mentioned anything near that. The fault lies in me and I am not going to blame anyone for anything, I will not be doing justice to anyone or even to myself. I had a good life- the problem lies again, in being average. I being too lazy, too afraid, too laid back.